Here’s Why I Started My Own Phone Sex Company

I avoided this type of post like the plague for a while because I wanted to remain unseen. I sort of wanted to be like a webmaster ghost so there would be no solid attention on me. I honestly just yearned for everyone else on our platform to shine. However, it’s 2026 and I have to grow the fuck up. People should know who owns a site they’re signing up for right? Besides, you can know me and still get to know our models. So here goes. Buckle up because this shit is long. 

Starting my own phone sex company is something I’ve wanted to do for many years. My mommy and I had a phone sex business back in 2012 with MyFreePhoneSite (yes I still call her mommy. I’m Dorothy out this bitch, I even call her ma). 😂

So anyway, hosting our site was free. It was fun. It was an instant success. We called it Guilty Pleasures. We started out working for ourselves on our site, with just the two of us. Then we expanded and hired other PSOs to work with us. The payout percentage with MyFreePhoneSite was 90%. They only took 10% to have a site on their platform. My mom and I equally took 10% for promotional and admin purposes. So our callers walked away with a solid 80% payout. It was THE perfect set up, so well thought out and easy to use. Very simple. Things were great. Until MyFreePhoneSite shut down and everything we had was gone. I was devastated but I somehow didn’t lose the urge to have my own again. It was a great responsibility in a great community. I loved it. I felt empowered. 

I searched and searched for a site like MyFreePhoneSite. I even searched to see if they would come back to life. But it never happened. I surely didn’t have the guts or resources to build a site with a developer. I didn’t know where to start. So I figured I’d take a break from the thought of having my own, placed it on the back burner. 

After MyFreePhoneSite shut down, I continued to work for platforms like Niteflirt and Talk To Me. Niteflirt is cool, the payout percentage is fantastic for me. Back then I had my regulars, and payments are always swift. I never had to wait for a pay week to end, and I didn’t need to wait until my account reached a higher financial goal. For anyone who doesn't know, Niteflirt has it where PSO's can set their payout amount to a minimum of $20, so every time I so much as reached $20 in one day, my earnings are released the next day and within days my earnings hit my bank account. Of course if I made more in one day it was even better because that just meant I was getting more revenue quickly. 

Talk To Me was a nightmare. I’m sorry, but it was an absolute nightmare. Back in the day, I had to get drunk often to take calls. They allowed extreme taboo topics and their payout percentage sucked. I remember taking disturbing calls from fans, feeling overwhelmed and horrible but thankful that I earned money, and then I would check my balance and it would be like $5.00 for a ten minute call. That was my actual payout percentage because Talk To Me’s cut was high. Way too high for me at least. When I raised my rate, I didn’t get calls. It was a mess. I even emailed them to express my concerns and they suggested I increase my rate again, but also stated I couldn’t raise my rate higher than $2.99/minute without their permission. I gagged! I was mortified and disgusted. I said to myself, 'you mean I have to ask you for permission to raise my rate to $3.00 solid dollars? Bitch what?' Nevertheless, I kept my rate at $1.50/minute but I shut down from taking calls for a few years. I loved their chat feature, however. We could charge for messages being read. Same with Niteflirt. 

In 2022 I looked up premium chat sites and found SextPanther. Honestly, I feel like if I didn’t have an account with ManyVids, I don’t think I would have been approved for SextPanther. My OnlyFans account was blowing out dust (still is). I was not active with that at all so there was no way I was submitting my OnlyFans link to SP. ManyVids literally opened that door for me. More on ManyVids is coming as they recently did some fuck shit. - Which I called it when they first started sending out those bullshit emails about SFW profile pics that couldn’t include lingerie!

Aside from my own platform, SextPanther was and still is the best platform I’d ever been on. Honestly. I loved (still do) their set up. I love that they have an app. The idea of chatting and sending private photos for a fee is phenomenal. I can set times for calls. So, for example if I only have an hour to take calls, I can set my call timer for one hour directly on their app. It was the best choice for me to join in 2022. And don’t get me started on the payout percentage. 80% for sexting and phone. So I could literally keep my same rate usually $1.00 to $1.50/minute and still earn good money. It was golden then and it’s golden now. I think their percentage rates change for various services, so it’s 80% for phone and messaging but I believe it’s different for photos and videos. Don’t quote me. By far, however, SextPanther is still the best platform for phone sex (aside from mine 😂). 

Now you may be wondering, why is she bigging up SextPanther so much when she has her own? Or better yet, when is she going to get to why she started her own platform? Ahhh yesss… my platform. 

Although SextPanther is very good to me, there’s still nothing like having my own. I’ve had situations where I partook in helping other platforms grow and make money and then they either changed rules or shifted in a way that was no longer beneficial for me. It was like I was being forced out. I remember web-camming with LiveJasmin back when it was just starting out and by the next year of me streaming they sent me a message saying my photos needed to be professionally taken with a photographer and if I couldn’t comply I could no longer continue with my account. I’ve been rejected by other platforms for not having a big enough following. Again, I strongly feel that I was only accepted with SextPanther because I have a ManyVids account. I have an MFC account, and I remember seeing a message years ago that 40+ models couldn’t join. It creeped me out. Now they may have changed the rules since then, as I am in my 40’s now and I’m still there but at the end of the day, I wanted to secure my future. I want my fans to always be able to find me and never ever have to worry about me disappearing. This is a line of work I enjoy doing and I don’t want the rug ripped from underneath me because others are now telling me I’m not good enough or I’m too old to be on their platform. ManyVids is another platform who has now shat on its models. The very same people who helped build their community and make them popular. With my platform, no one can fire me, no one can discriminate against me or shadow ban me. 

But wait, there’s more. I’m sure you’ve probably already put two and two together by now, but in comes my business partner. I talk to my mommy daily. And of course she knows all of my business, including my time with different phone sex and web-camming companies. My mom was with Niteflirt for a while before they seemingly kicked her off. We don’t know why, all we know is, she cannot access her account and she hasn't been able to for years. So we thought it safe to say, they probably aged her out. (I didn’t know that was a thing until I became a model with MFC back in 2012). Needless to say, my mom decided she didn’t want to try with Niteflirt anymore and so she let that go. I recommended she sign up for SextPanther, and she did just that, I helped her. We put in an application for her and she was rejected. - No shade, I get it. It’s their platform, they can conduct it the way they want. 

But it was in that moment I said I’m sick of this shit. Constantly asking to sit at other tables and being rejected or placed in the back, remaining unseen. Ebony models exist. People who are interested in this line of work with little to no experience or following exists and they want to explore their kinks while getting paid too. There’s more than enough to go around. With that, I began researching opening my own phone sex company again and sure enough, because I wanted it so bad, the universe literally showed me every resource and a quick way get my business up and running. I had no money, no resources, no backup, just me and my dream. It was a process, a challenging process, we’ve worked to bring our vision to life, but it is well worth it. With the work that has been put into it; it turned out to be more advanced than MyFreePhoneSite. It aligns with the times now. Sexting is in. I take great comfort in knowing, I will always have a place at the table I created. It is simple and cute. I recently read a post on X - it said something along the lines of, you’re not behind, you are in an industry that changes every 72 hours. That is so true. There is always room for evolution.

So anyway, I asked my mother to be my business partner. Because I wanted her to not just have a platform to perform on, but I wanted her to have solid security too. An investment. And when we opened our business I said to her; “Now no one can kick you off or close the door in your face.” She smiled and cried. Thanked me over and over. She’s so sweet. I equally felt protected, wanted, empowered. I’ve since left Talk To Me. I figured I’d want to focus more on my own business (Luxurious Pleasures), SextPanther, and Niteflirt. 

Our percentage rates are high at 85% payout for everything, including tips. One may ask why so high? Well...we are models ourselves. We do the work to promote the site and ourselves. The 15% commission we do collect goes to small admin work and updates for the site. Now me personally, I always go where I’m loved. I never limit myself to just one platform. If I’m welcomed and I can make money, I’m going. But having my own business when others may turn their backs on me; has a different effect. It’s literally a platform built by virtual sex workers, for virtual sex workers.

Since opening up, we are so grateful to have models from all over the world on our platform. Being their sexy selves and contributing to our growing community. It’s a great high. I love sharing my platform with people like me who enjoy this line of work and didn’t have a place elsewhere. I don’t want to make this a complaining fest, but it’s just so disheartening that so many companies use us to build their platforms just to back peddle and kick us out once they’ve made their coins. Some even go as far as to not accept new people who could use a platform to help get their feet wet and build their resume. Work is work. Sex work is work. I started this because I want models and fans to feel wanted, sexy, heard, and empowered. And I mean that with my entire soul. Sex work is not going anywhere and why the fuck should it? No really… why should it? So adults can go back to their dry lives and be miserable. Sex can help relieve stress, phone sex is a healthy expression of sex. Sooo many sexless lives out here being held back for what? Shame? I’m not ashamed. I’ve done the work to heal from my own trauma, and I am not ashamed to be an adult in my true form. I love sex. I love talking about sex, I love getting paid to talk about sex. I want the people on our platform to love it too. 

I’ve managed to bring some of my fans over to our site. That shit makes me feel sooo good, because if they can’t talk with me right away, they can talk with others that perhaps, they couldn’t find anywhere else. Or let’s say I get a new fan, and we don’t necessarily have the same interests; then that fan can browse others on our platform who do share the same interests. Like videos or video calls with extreme anal and ATM. I can’t do those, but we have a model that does. 

We are growing and with the support of models and fans alike, we will continue to grow and update our site to better accommodate our users interests. 

But ummm that wraps up this blog post. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. I hope it was enjoyable for you as it was for me. 🤗 

Share your thoughts. Have you ever thought about opening up your own phone sex business? What was your motivation? If you haven’t opened up one, what’s stopping you? 

And if you just don’t feel like it and you simply want to join a platform, we welcome you to join ours. We would be more than thrilled to have you contribute to our lovely community. All we ask is that you have fun, don’t break the rules, and we Gucci! 😘

Click here to register for your model or fan account today. 

Webamming VS One on One Video Calls

Okay so remember when I made a blog post a little while ago about webcamming on three different webcamming platforms? Oh man, I was totally stoked! I was excited, looking forward to going back and having a great time. I had a plan and a schedule for each week. It was sure to work out right? WRONG! Girl what? Check it out. 

Literally a week later, I traveled to a private space for the very reason of webcamming freely and for longer periods of time during my sessions. Well that week my auntie came to town. I was absolutely pissed. Webcamming with clothes on, seemed like a catastrophe so I decided to opt in for phone calls instead. I will say however, that the night before the red demon herself came into town, I managed to fit in a video call and I was astounded by the amount of money I made from one video call in all of just under 10 minutes! 

So here’s the real tea, I do enjoy webcamming on platforms like MFC, Bongacams, and Chaturbate. It gives me a chance to put on a show, be naked for a couple of hours, I’m never bored because someone is always in the room talking and tipping. However, on the flip side, the tips are still sometimes not enough. In any business the core focus shouldn't always be about money but let’s get realistic here. Bills need to be paid and money needs to be made to pay them. Sitting online all day is cute, get a buck here, get a buck there (or less - no shade); but one on one video calls are far better. 

With webcamming I have to put on a show and make it good. Keep the crowd entertained. I have learned that I can still do that, but not as often as I anticipated. I personally prefer to be more intimate with fans by having them video call me directly for our one on one session. I genuinely have a good time. I do understand that webcamming platforms have private video chats. That’s great! I’ve done those too. But again, I’ve found that I enjoy having one on one direct connections with my fans better by way of video phone calls. We each get to connect on things we equally enjoy and discuss our interests and fantasies in a private call. They have my attention and I have theirs. It’s the perfect intimacy level. 

But here’s a bonus...never have I ever made $30 bucks in less than 10 minutes for a private video chat. Cash. (Not even in a private show in between webcamming public shows)

Now no shade to the platforms, I will forever be grateful to their platforms, their ideas, and the opportunities. After all, they were one of the first to do it with bringing fans and models together for private shows. But we are in a world where things are forever evolving and shifting. The era of tokens is slowly moving out of focus and the land of straight up cash (or crypto, which I hate. Crypto??? ugh) is IN. Webcamming companies are still working with tokens, and while its worth varies, some of these tokens are worth anywhere from 5 cents to what? 60 cents per token - and I’m probably being generous when I say 60 cents. I get it, the staff maintaining the platforms need to be paid, it’s the gift that keeps on giving. It takes a lot to build a site, update it, maintain it, and host on it. But if I want to make cold hard cash, I need to go where I can get it. Am I cash driven? No. But does the thought of making 200 dollars in one hour motivate me to take more video calls when aunt flow isn’t in town? YES! 

Picture it, I’m connecting one on one intimately with each fan who has not only shown an interest in me, but goes out of his (or her) way to seek me and schedule a video call with me. We go on to explore our common interests privately, we compliment one another and touch on fantasies, all while I’m earning generous amounts of cash during this lovely intimate call. Honey I’ll pop that thicky picky all through the camera for as long as my handsome fella (or gorgeous mama) needs me to. It’s a win win. 

Once we cum, we hang up and I go back to reading my book until my next handsome fella (or gorgeous mama) video calls me. No shows, no token goals, no shaking my ass and then logging off to realize I've only earned $1.90 for the two hours I was on (LOL - that shit is still funny). Again, no shade, I’m giving my honest opinion based on my experience. I’ll return to webcamming again. I have fans that love me there too. Everyone deserves a bit of something. Now one might argue that they’ve earned that much on webcamming sites, that’s great too! For me personally, I have not. Think about it, and I’m going on a limb here, for me to earn that amount of money on private webcamming shows, I would need to increase my rate heavily so that my 65% earned commission will equal a large take home amount (and perhaps I could’ve made it but my lack of confidence scared them off). Tokens versus cash also makes huge difference. Sites offering higher payouts is another thing to consider. My rates for video calls aren’t high and I enjoy it that way. 

Needless to say, I haven’t been back online for webcamming since I last wrote about Chaturbate. No shade all tea, aunt flow left town a fucking week later and I was back home to chaos, BUT, I made a way to take one on one calls and I have become hooked! 

To close this out, I have learned that connecting one on one is better for me. I’m already shy, I’ve never been quite the performer for a crowd and that’s okay. I won’t let my fans down though, I’ll be back. I appreciate them. I actually have a fan who tips me all the time even when I’m offline. I was offline for years and he just kept tipping me, wishing me well and writing beautiful notes to me. I’m hoping he’ll come on over on the sext, telephone, and video call side so we can chat more. 😘

Anyway, I love secured platforms to take one on one video calls on. I know there are people who do one on one video calls to cut out the "middle man", if you will and I don’t blame them. Hey! Get it where you can! But I personally enjoy having the safety and security on an actual platform. Plus I’m old and I can’t keep up with the whole teams and cashapp stuff. Like they have a whole system they follow to cut out the middle man. It’s smart, I have to give it to them. But that’s not me. I get those types of requests, (from fans on the webcamming sites no less, ha!) and I’m like, now honey you know better than to ask me that, I wouldn’t even know where to begin on how to collect the money, much less schedule a video call on snapchat. Like what happens after the video call? Do I block you? Like…. 

Enough rambling…. I host one on one video calls on Sext Panther and Luxurious Pleasures only. It’s discreet, direct, easy, and safe (and payout percentages are higher). 

When it comes to webcamming versus one on one video calls, which do you prefer and why? What was your experience like and what’s your fondest memory of your favorite? Leave a comment below. 

Summer Breaks

This summer has been utterly brutal to me. I was forced to take a break from blogging, phone sex, videos and webcamming. I live in an old apartment building with horrible electrical issues (A.C.'s aren't a feasible option) so unfortunately until I move, sex work is not something I can explore during the summer season. That's not to say I wasn't horny. I was totally wet and ready to play most nights. Just too damn hot to even perform. 

In fact, the one call I did manage to take; in the middle of our conversation I began fanning myself with a piece of paper and praying he didn't hear it. Sure enough, he did. He asked what that airing noise was, and I couldn't lie to him. I finally admitted I was hot and bothered and in desperate need of a paper fan. We laughed it off but I immediately stopped. After that I decided that as long as I was going to be living in this building, I wouldn't be able to not work my precious hobby. 

But, now that the temperature is whining down, I'm excited to get back out there and enjoy myself. They say when you do what you love it simply doesn't feel like you're working at all. In this case, that is certainly true. Unless it's the summer time in my hot ass apartment. Then it's a hard pass! 

Cheers guys. And thanks for all of your support!   

Original date: September 28, 2020

A Few Good Websites

 Before I get into the good stuff, remember when I told you about my first time webcam modeling? Well, shortly after my divorce I did my full research on webcam modeling for Black women. I simply couldn't get what that guy said to me out of my mind. I had to know if it were true. 

In my research, I found that he was in fact, right. I did notice that Black women do not earn nearly as much as White women earn. So, when you see these sites trying to recruit you with over the top amounts of money you can make a week, take caution. You must enter in this game with full knowledge and I'm here to provide that to the best of my ability. 

On average, a Black woman will make $2 out of the $5 that the White woman has made and the Black woman will have to work three times harder. I know it's a harsh way to view things, and while everything shouldn't be about race; sadly it is. I've seen it, I've lived it. I've literally had to think outside of the box to separate myself from the White models in order to earn a quarter of what they make just for sitting there, playing with their nails or dance stiffly. No shade all tea. 

I've seen Black models play with their pussies, do splits and tricks on the pole and still only earn $1 dollar. It's the sad truth. I've seen Black women stream longer and still walk away with a few hundred bucks and yet on the other hand, in less time, on that same day, one White woman earned thirty thousand dollars. She was fully clothed, danced a little bit, picked at her nails and asked her followers if they loved her. They said yes, she said show me, and they tipped her big bucks. It was that simple. I was floored, but I respected the hustle. That will never be me. I thought.

I went on the home page to browse through MFC, I saw the labeled queen models at the top. I thought hmmm that's cute and interesting. But they were all white. There was one woman I thought was Black on that list, and before I could get hyped, I clicked on her profile and saw she was a White woman who was tanned. I noticed out of the ten pages of webcam models they had displayed, 9 of them were listed with White women and the last page consisted of the few Black women that were online. Now that was back in 2013, things could have changed by now. The good thing about this day and age is that more Black women are being recognized in the game. Are they earning more? That's an even better question I'd like to have an answer to. 

Now comes the good part, while Black women still won't earn nearly as much, there is still hope that you can and will earn a good amount. After all, something is better than nothing, and sometimes just the mere admiration is enough. It's a sense of empowerment. One thing I did learn about myself as a model is that it became less about the money and more about being worshiped and admired. I still wanted my coins, make no mistake about that. And I earned them. But it also felt good to have admirers who love my skin tone, personality and my love for the work. I've met some really interesting and sweet men. 

Here's a list of webcam modeling sites where you as a Black woman can and will be admired and therefore paid well.

1. MFC (They have the highest percentage payout to all models.)

2. LiveJasmin (Super classy and super strict about models having professionally based profiles, but this site provides great recognition and marketing tools for Black models.)

3. Internet Modeling (Super easy to use, great website for amateurs and they have the second highest percentage payout to all models. They even have an ebony models tab. So, if you don't exactly want to consider yourself a model, but simply someone who just wants to have fun, this site is definitely for you.)

4. Chaturbate (I hear is good, I did have an account and I streamed but I wasn't paid as they hadn't approved that part. They denied my payment set up because I didn't have a passport. They asked for a driver's license, I provided that and my account was still rejected. However, before that happened and I asked them to take down my profile; I did manage to stream one day and within a day I had over 200 fans and admirers. Now that I think about it, I probably could have made a hell of a lot of money there and built so many friendships. But best of luck to you if you decide to become a model here.)

5. Streamate (Is only really good for exposure. They're percentage for payout is extremely low.)

Note: Before you say "oh they have sites specifically for Black women" yes, those are hosted by yours truly Streamate. Which as you can see is the last on my list. I've linked all of them in case you're interested in visiting these sites to become a model, easy access *wink*. 

Those are just a few I have experiences with and thought were really good for me. If you want to do further research on sites that may be good for you, by all means, I strongly recommend it. Just make sure you are ready for that type of work. It's not easy, it does take guts, interest, open mindedness and of course a bubbly personality. If you put in the work and hours, you are guaranteed to earn more than your average 9 to 5 job paycheck. Sex work is extremely creative, so don't be afraid to take a break if you're feeling overwhelmed. Don't allow the pressure of earning money take over your mentality to a point where you're taking any job that comes to you. 

To all of my current sex workers, what are some of your experiences in the industry? Do you have a website that you felt was fair with pay and proper marketing for exposure? Drop your comments below. 

Thanks for reading! xoxo

Original date: June 4, 2020

Achy Throat

 I can remember a time years ago when I first met my lover right after my divorce where my throat was slightly sore following a sexual encounter with him.

I sat at work wondering how my throat became so sore. It was in the middle of summer season and I knew there was absolutely no chance in hell I could be getting sick. I spoke to my friend the queen of deep throating and she said, "did you suck his dick?"

I said; "Yes."

She said; "Well bitch that's why your throat hurts." I laughed for a second and she said; "no really. At first you're thinking, damn is this nigga burnin'?" I laughed even harder. Because she was right. That's exactly what I had been thinking. 

It suddenly dawned on me that I had never deep throated a guy before. I was loving this new feeling. It let me know I was doing something right. He certainly enjoyed my mouth on his big fat juicy dick. He came so hard his toes curled. It was sexy. I loved having that type of control over someone.

I wanted to do more of deep throating and I wanted it to be video recorded. But I'm a loner at heart, believe it or not. At the time, I was dipping my feet into a bit of everything. Phone sex, webcamming, single female videos for sale, so to me this was a perfect idea for a POV. And it worked, my videos were being bought and guys were loving my live shows. 

Fast forward to now, 2020, after not doing it as often as I have before, last week I finally took to my dildo and fucked it. Deep throated it at the end and left satisfied. But, my throat hurts and I had a case of amnesia. Here we are in warm weather with the Coronavirus going on at that and I became paranoid about the slight soreness in my throat. I heard my best friend's voice in my head saying, 'did you suck his dick?' I quickly realized it was the dildo I gagged on and instantly smiled.

I'm not as good as I was years ago, but it was still fun to do nevertheless.

Check out my video here to get a taste of what I mean.  

Thanks for reading. Stay safe my friends.

Original date: May 23, 2020

My First Time Webcamming

 The first time I took a chance at webcamming was back in 2012. I was married, self employed and debt free. I had a t-shirt company that was supported with cash only and I was quickly running out of it, because my husband was spending it all.

I didn't want to go broke so I decided to up the ante by applying for MyFreeCams. He didn't know about it. My original plan was to be a non-nude model. I applied and while I waited for my approval status I watched a couple of models to get a feel of what I needed to do. Some models were fun to watch, others simply bored me. What I did notice while I watched, was that no matter what they were doing, whether interacting with customers or not, they were all being tipped lovely. I wanted in. Not all of them got naked, and they were still being tipped. I knew this would be easy. I have a bubbly personality so surely the customers would like me, right? WRONG.

Once my profile was approved I immediately plotted on broadcasting that night. My plan was to broadcast at night a time when I thought more men would be online. I'm not a night owl, but it seemed like a sensible thing to do. That night I made up my face, put my curly wig on and dressed in my cutest outfit. I went online and smiled. Ready to type and be cute. Talk to men and get to know them. Have an open discussion and build these relationships by making these men trust me during their lonely times. And my tactic worked. Men came to my room and talked with me, a few asked me to take my clothes off. Some even asked if I wanted to go in a private session. I had no idea what that was, so of course I declined. After all, I was new to this scene. I really wanted to be like the girls I'd seen online earlier that day. 

Well honey, I was online from sun down to sun up and only earned a nickel. Yes. You've read that right. One nickel. But, I refused to be deterred. I figured it was only the first night and if I just continued to broadcast, I would eventually build more trust and relationships and the money would soon follow. I needed more fans, I needed more men and women alike to like me. I turned my camera off and proceeded to log out of my account when I received an email. I clicked on it curious of its content. In the email a man wrote to me; "Honey, you're gorgeous and all but if you want to make some real money you need to learn how to take your clothes off. I've watched you all night, you only made one nickel. You're Black, sitting there talking and being cute isn't going to earn you any money."

It was in that very moment I'd realized; that the research I thought I was doing the day prior, only pertained to White women. I had only been watching White women. I hadn't taken a peak at one single Black woman's room.  I hadn't thought about it being a race thing until I read that email and reminisced on my so called research. I felt like a fool. I felt like a failure, hopeless and dirty. And then I became angry and thought how dare he say that to me. As if getting naked is my only option. But in my heart I knew he was right. It was that funny feeling labeled as "the truth" setting in my belly that consumed me. And I had no one else to blame for not being 1,000 percent sure that what he was saying was true. I needed to find out for myself. Instead, I logged out and went on a hiatus. There was no way in hell I would take my clothes off as a married woman. I needed a break to figure things out. Approximately five months later, I was in the middle of a uncontested divorce.  

Let the games begin, I thought. 

Original date: May 27, 2020

Phones Sex Versus Webcam Modeling

 When you’re thinking of starting a sex career whether it’s for extra cash or merely something you just enjoy doing so you figured why not make a few coins from it, there are so many options to consider. One may think they’d do perfect over the phone versus showing their bodies on the internet for strangers to view. 

So the question is, which is better? In my personal experience I’ve found that both have its challenges so I can’t really say which one is actually better. I’ve equally enjoyed doing both forms of work. I’ve discovered some things about myself and my personality. I’ve managed to balance out which ones I’d do and when. Sort of like a schedule. For me it was all about trial and error. Still is. 

Now when it comes to others, such as yourself, the best advice I can give is, to do what is best for you. And if you don’t know what that is just yet, here are some things to consider. 

Phone sex is more intense. You’re creating a fantasy for your clientele. Although they can see you, like in photos, or videos you’ve perhaps published on your site or profile, at the end of the day they’re calling you for an actual conversation. They want to hear your voice up close and personal. They want to hear your desire for their fantasy and them. There’s something about hearing one’s voice and carrying a conversation that makes the bond a bit stronger. Even down to the breath of you and your caller. You can hear it all. However, it’s great for shy folks who just want to talk and create a fantasy with their admirers. 

Webcamming is less personal in my opinion. It’s a very professional atmosphere. They’re watching you, talking to you but no voices are heard outside of your own. Unless they take you into a private show. Webcamming can be nerve wrecking because they’re watching your every move. Your lighting has to be right, your background has to be neat, your look needs to be desirable. And that's not to say you need to physically be drop dead gorgeous, remember your personality is everything. You need to figure out ways to set yourself aside from other models. And most importantly, you can’t fake an orgasm. Toys are helpful, having a bubbly personality is helpful, being playful and coming up with fresh material and games to keep them entertained and watching you. 

Both jobs are like acting but if you enjoy the work, it isn’t hard to do. Like any other job, it takes work, time and effort. It’s a question of how exciting will it be for you? No one wants to talk to an operator or a model who isn’t interested in what they’re doing. Another thing I’ve learned is most clients aren’t calling or looking at you solely for their pleasure, they’re doing it to genuinely have fun in a nonjudgmental world. They want all parties to have fun, relax and be themselves. The best part about it is they’re paying you for it. Don’t get me wrong, there are clients who want total control, but they normally seek submissive participants. 

These days, more and more sites are integrating their platforms by adding features like the option to upload videos, PSO’s can webcam and take phone calls in one setting so that you won’t have to join different sites for different services. And as I’ve stated before, ultimately what you do is your decision and it’s about how comfortable you are. Feel yourself out first. Ask yourself, “can I see myself doing that?” And if you can’t, then you simply move forward to the next gig. 

I hope this helps. If you have any questions don’t be afraid to reach out. 

Original date: June 13, 2020