I avoided this type of post like the plague for a while because I wanted to remain unseen. I sort of wanted to be like a webmaster ghost so there would be no solid attention on me. I honestly just yearned for everyone else on our platform to shine. However, it’s 2026 and I have to grow the fuck up. People should know who owns a site they’re signing up for right? Besides, you can know me and still get to know our models. So here goes. Buckle up because this shit is long.
Starting my own phone sex company is something I’ve wanted to do for many years. My mommy and I had a phone sex business back in 2012 with MyFreePhoneSite (yes I still call her mommy. I’m Dorothy out this bitch, I even call her ma). 😂
So anyway, hosting our site was free. It was fun. It was an instant success. We called it Guilty Pleasures. We started out working for ourselves on our site, with just the two of us. Then we expanded and hired other PSOs to work with us. The payout percentage with MyFreePhoneSite was 90%. They only took 10% to have a site on their platform. My mom and I equally took 10% for promotional and admin purposes. So our callers walked away with a solid 80% payout. It was THE perfect set up, so well thought out and easy to use. Very simple. Things were great. Until MyFreePhoneSite shut down and everything we had was gone. I was devastated but I somehow didn’t lose the urge to have my own again. It was a great responsibility in a great community. I loved it. I felt empowered.
I searched and searched for a site like MyFreePhoneSite. I even searched to see if they would come back to life. But it never happened. I surely didn’t have the guts or resources to build a site with a developer. I didn’t know where to start. So I figured I’d take a break from the thought of having my own, placed it on the back burner.
After MyFreePhoneSite shut down, I continued to work for platforms like Niteflirt and Talk To Me. Niteflirt is cool, the payout percentage is fantastic for me. Back then I had my regulars, and payments are always swift. I never had to wait for a pay week to end, and I didn’t need to wait until my account reached a higher financial goal. For anyone who doesn't know, Niteflirt has it where PSO's can set their payout amount to a minimum of $20, so every time I so much as reached $20 in one day, my earnings are released the next day and within days my earnings hit my bank account. Of course if I made more in one day it was even better because that just meant I was getting more revenue quickly.
Talk To Me was a nightmare. I’m sorry, but it was an absolute nightmare. Back in the day, I had to get drunk often to take calls. They allowed extreme taboo topics and their payout percentage sucked. I remember taking disturbing calls from fans, feeling overwhelmed and horrible but thankful that I earned money, and then I would check my balance and it would be like $5.00 for a ten minute call. That was my actual payout percentage because Talk To Me’s cut was high. Way too high for me at least. When I raised my rate, I didn’t get calls. It was a mess. I even emailed them to express my concerns and they suggested I increase my rate again, but also stated I couldn’t raise my rate higher than $2.99/minute without their permission. I gagged! I was mortified and disgusted. I said to myself, 'you mean I have to ask you for permission to raise my rate to $3.00 solid dollars? Bitch what?' Nevertheless, I kept my rate at $1.50/minute but I shut down from taking calls for a few years. I loved their chat feature, however. We could charge for messages being read. Same with Niteflirt.
In 2022 I looked up premium chat sites and found SextPanther. Honestly, I feel like if I didn’t have an account with ManyVids, I don’t think I would have been approved for SextPanther. My OnlyFans account was blowing out dust (still is). I was not active with that at all so there was no way I was submitting my OnlyFans link to SP. ManyVids literally opened that door for me. More on ManyVids is coming as they recently did some fuck shit. - Which I called it when they first started sending out those bullshit emails about SFW profile pics that couldn’t include lingerie!
Aside from my own platform, SextPanther was and still is the best platform I’d ever been on. Honestly. I loved (still do) their set up. I love that they have an app. The idea of chatting and sending private photos for a fee is phenomenal. I can set times for calls. So, for example if I only have an hour to take calls, I can set my call timer for one hour directly on their app. It was the best choice for me to join in 2022. And don’t get me started on the payout percentage. 80% for sexting and phone. So I could literally keep my same rate usually $1.00 to $1.50/minute and still earn good money. It was golden then and it’s golden now. I think their percentage rates change for various services, so it’s 80% for phone and messaging but I believe it’s different for photos and videos. Don’t quote me. By far, however, SextPanther is still the best platform for phone sex (aside from mine 😂).
Now you may be wondering, why is she bigging up SextPanther so much when she has her own? Or better yet, when is she going to get to why she started her own platform? Ahhh yesss… my platform.
Although SextPanther is very good to me, there’s still nothing like having my own. I’ve had situations where I partook in helping other platforms grow and make money and then they either changed rules or shifted in a way that was no longer beneficial for me. It was like I was being forced out. I remember web-camming with LiveJasmin back when it was just starting out and by the next year of me streaming they sent me a message saying my photos needed to be professionally taken with a photographer and if I couldn’t comply I could no longer continue with my account. I’ve been rejected by other platforms for not having a big enough following. Again, I strongly feel that I was only accepted with SextPanther because I have a ManyVids account. I have an MFC account, and I remember seeing a message years ago that 40+ models couldn’t join. It creeped me out. Now they may have changed the rules since then, as I am in my 40’s now and I’m still there but at the end of the day, I wanted to secure my future. I want my fans to always be able to find me and never ever have to worry about me disappearing. This is a line of work I enjoy doing and I don’t want the rug ripped from underneath me because others are now telling me I’m not good enough or I’m too old to be on their platform. ManyVids is another platform who has now shat on its models. The very same people who helped build their community and make them popular. With my platform, no one can fire me, no one can discriminate against me or shadow ban me.
But wait, there’s more. I’m sure you’ve probably already put two and two together by now, but in comes my business partner. I talk to my mommy daily. And of course she knows all of my business, including my time with different phone sex and web-camming companies. My mom was with Niteflirt for a while before they seemingly kicked her off. We don’t know why, all we know is, she cannot access her account and she hasn't been able to for years. So we thought it safe to say, they probably aged her out. (I didn’t know that was a thing until I became a model with MFC back in 2012). Needless to say, my mom decided she didn’t want to try with Niteflirt anymore and so she let that go. I recommended she sign up for SextPanther, and she did just that, I helped her. We put in an application for her and she was rejected. - No shade, I get it. It’s their platform, they can conduct it the way they want.
But it was in that moment I said I’m sick of this shit. Constantly asking to sit at other tables and being rejected or placed in the back, remaining unseen. Ebony models exist. People who are interested in this line of work with little to no experience or following exists and they want to explore their kinks while getting paid too. There’s more than enough to go around. With that, I began researching opening my own phone sex company again and sure enough, because I wanted it so bad, the universe literally showed me every resource and a quick way get my business up and running. I had no money, no resources, no backup, just me and my dream. It was a process, a challenging process, we’ve worked to bring our vision to life, but it is well worth it. With the work that has been put into it; it turned out to be more advanced than MyFreePhoneSite. It aligns with the times now. Sexting is in. I take great comfort in knowing, I will always have a place at the table I created. It is simple and cute. I recently read a post on X - it said something along the lines of, you’re not behind, you are in an industry that changes every 72 hours. That is so true. There is always room for evolution.
So anyway, I asked my mother to be my business partner. Because I wanted her to not just have a platform to perform on, but I wanted her to have solid security too. An investment. And when we opened our business I said to her; “Now no one can kick you off or close the door in your face.” She smiled and cried. Thanked me over and over. She’s so sweet. I equally felt protected, wanted, empowered. I’ve since left Talk To Me. I figured I’d want to focus more on my own business (Luxurious Pleasures), SextPanther, and Niteflirt.
Our percentage rates are high at 85% payout for everything, including tips. One may ask why so high? Well...we are models ourselves. We do the work to promote the site and ourselves. The 15% commission we do collect goes to small admin work and updates for the site. Now me personally, I always go where I’m loved. I never limit myself to just one platform. If I’m welcomed and I can make money, I’m going. But having my own business when others may turn their backs on me; has a different effect. It’s literally a platform built by virtual sex workers, for virtual sex workers.
Since opening up, we are so grateful to have models from all over the world on our platform. Being their sexy selves and contributing to our growing community. It’s a great high. I love sharing my platform with people like me who enjoy this line of work and didn’t have a place elsewhere. I don’t want to make this a complaining fest, but it’s just so disheartening that so many companies use us to build their platforms just to back peddle and kick us out once they’ve made their coins. Some even go as far as to not accept new people who could use a platform to help get their feet wet and build their resume. Work is work. Sex work is work. I started this because I want models and fans to feel wanted, sexy, heard, and empowered. And I mean that with my entire soul. Sex work is not going anywhere and why the fuck should it? No really… why should it? So adults can go back to their dry lives and be miserable. Sex can help relieve stress, phone sex is a healthy expression of sex. Sooo many sexless lives out here being held back for what? Shame? I’m not ashamed. I’ve done the work to heal from my own trauma, and I am not ashamed to be an adult in my true form. I love sex. I love talking about sex, I love getting paid to talk about sex. I want the people on our platform to love it too.
I’ve managed to bring some of my fans over to our site. That shit makes me feel sooo good, because if they can’t talk with me right away, they can talk with others that perhaps, they couldn’t find anywhere else. Or let’s say I get a new fan, and we don’t necessarily have the same interests; then that fan can browse others on our platform who do share the same interests. Like videos or video calls with extreme anal and ATM. I can’t do those, but we have a model that does.
We are growing and with the support of models and fans alike, we will continue to grow and update our site to better accommodate our users interests.
But ummm that wraps up this blog post. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. I hope it was enjoyable for you as it was for me. 🤗
Share your thoughts. Have you ever thought about opening up your own phone sex business? What was your motivation? If you haven’t opened up one, what’s stopping you?
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